If you’ve never tried online dating before you may be looking for a bit of Flirting Help! Even if you are used to flirting in real life, flirting online can be a little different :-)

To be a good flirt, you need to ooze confidence, without appearing over the top, or over confident. So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language?  All you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right?

Here are 5 Tips for flirting online successfully:

Tip One: The most important thing is to Have fun!  Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining.  Make the other person want to talk to you again.  Flirting is playful, not serious.

Tip Two: Don’t be rude.  Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the other person isn’t responding to you. If the other person doesn’t seem interested, take the hint and try flirting with somone else instead.  If you find that you are getting a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach, but don’t be offended if someone doesn’t want to reciprocate – it happens all the time.

Tip Three: Listen…listen….listen.  Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions.  Get her to open up and talk about herself.  Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her.  Works wonders!

Tip Four: Compliment the other person …and do it often and sincerely.  Nothing opens doors like making someon feel good about themself.  If someone pays you a compliment, simply say “thank you”.  Do not be self depreciating.

Tip Five: Send an email after you have finished chatting.  This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.

All the Flirting Help in the world isn’t as good as actual practise! If you want test out your flirting skills right now, register for Click and Flirt for free and you can start flirting with other single straight away.

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